Before I get started, I want you all to know that this is a reply to a video that was posted on @TheYoungTurks Youtube Channel. Please watch the following Video, then keep on reading:
Did you watch it? Good.Now I have a few things I want to say about this “Dirty Girl Ministries” – First off, A ministry that calls itself “Dirty Girl Ministries” Can’t be taken seriously. Any church that tells you that being a human is wrong is a church you don’t want to be apart of.
Yeah I know that in the clip that wasn’t said, but it can be construed as such. Women are being coaxed into being afraid of their sexual nature and urges, and for feeling guilty for even thinking about sex and for self-exploration of their bodies.
What is so wrong with Masturbation and Pornography? Watching porn, if only for a few minutes, does not mean that you are in deep shit with god, or anyone else for that matter.
People are going be curious about their bodies, and instead of making them feel bad about themselves and calling them “Addicts”, we should be telling them that they have nothing to be afraid or ashamed of – it’s just sex, for fucks sake.
To be clear, watching Porn once in a while does NOT make you an addict. The same goes with masturbation – doing these things in moderation does NOT make you an addict. Also, if you are able to watch porn and rub one out and it doesn’t interfere with your life, you’re not an addict.
Here is an entry from WebMD (I couldn’t find a simple entry on the matter anywhere else) about the signs of sex addiction:
- Compulsive masturbation (self-stimulation)
- Multiple affairs (extra-marital affairs)
- Multiple or anonymous sexual partners and/or one-night stands
- Consistent use of pornography
- Unsafe sex
- Phone or computer sex (cybersex)
- Prostitution or use of prostitutes
- Obsessive dating through personal ads
- Voyeurism (watching others) and/or stalking
- Sexual harassment
Basically, IF you are doing all these things, or at least the majority of them, and it is effecting your life in a negative way, THEN you are a sex addict. If you are in a relationship, or if you are single, and you watch a porn movie on occasion, this does not mean you have a sex addiction, and you don’t sound like your are a “Slave to Pornography” either.
To be curious about your body and what arouses you sexually, is not bad nor is it some sign that something is wrong with you… It’s perfectly natural to explore your sexual self.
There are women who are not able to orgasm easily or not at all. This could be a Physical Condition, but most of the time its a psychological one, and that can be rooted to either your parents, religion, an awkward sexual experience, or a bit of all of the above.
If anyone should be ashamed in all of this it should be Crystal Renaud – for her to tell women that they have a problem and that it is wrong to have even a single sexual thought is the biggest pile of shit I’ve ever heard… Actually, I take that back. The Biggest Pile of shit I’ve ever heard is for her to tell women that they have a problem and that it is wrong to have even a single sexual thought AND that to “cure” them is gonna cost 1500 bucks.
She is taking advantage of women who need answers – they don’t need treatment for an addiction they don’t have. And for someone to be so experienced in sexual nature, yet act so carelessly is just an insult to sex experts everywhere.
Oh, and by the way, this Crystal Renaud – she watches porn. If you go to the dirtygirlsministries.com, click the About tab and look at her profile picture – oh yeah, you can see it in the eyes she watches the porn big time.
I think Cenk Uygur should have the final thought in this post:
“Stop wasting your lives. Get to work – Masturbate.”