Prudes + Porn = A Big Headache


“Don’t watch Porn – you’ll go to hell !”

“Do not use the word Moist around me !”

“Good Girls don’t enjoy sex”

“Women don’t watch Porn”

“Stop looking at her breasts !”

“Gentlemen don’t think about a woman sexually”

 

I have heard these statements above in my life – not from the same person but sadly from different people – mainly women. Sidenote: The next to last quote I’ve heard a few times >:D

There is actually more statements than this, but if I typed them all, this blog would be way too long, and you’d all lose interest in me. If you may have heard these sayings yourself, don’t panic – you’re just in the presence of prudes.

For those of you who may not know what a prude is, let’s consult Wikipedia:

Prude 

A person who is described as (or would describe themselves as) being concerned with decorum or propriety, significantly in excess of normal prevailing community standards. They may be perceived as being more uncomfortable than most with sexuality, nudity, alcohol, drug use or mischief.

The name is generally considered to suggest excessive modesty, and is hence unflattering, often used as an insult by people who do not share the moral standards of the "prude". A person who is considered a prude may have reservations about nudity, participating in romantic or sexual activity, drinking alcohol or consuming other drugs, or participating in mischief. These reservations usually stem from, or are at least justified by, moral beliefs. Actions or beliefs that may cause someone to be labeled a prude include advocating or practicing abstinence, advocating prohibition, advocating censorship of sexuality or nudity in the media, disapproval of being nude in public, avoiding or condemning public display of affection, or exhibiting unusual levels of discomfort with sexuality, alcohol, drugs or mischief.

Or, more accurately put, someone with a big stick up their ass when it comes to the human needs, wants and desires and urges.

Now don’t get me wrong, there is NOTHING wrong with having your own standards – if anything having standards is a best way to avoid most of the bullshit out there. The issue I take offence with is when people try of force their standards down other peoples throats, instead of just letting you do your own thing and enjoy the things you like to do – this includes and is not limited to:

  • Watching Porn
  • Masturbation
  • Sex
  • Drinking (Within moderation)
  • Drugs (I’m OK with Weed for recreational uses and medicinal purposes, but that’s just me)

The amazing thing that gets me about prudes are the ones who think that watching Porn is a very bad thing. Most believe that it will corrupt your moral compass, make you think that you are a sicko and need medical help, or even that you will be Satan’s little bitch when you die.

WTF ?!

Lookit, Porn is NOT a sin to watch. It doesn’t make you a freak, and it won’t corrupt your soul. Watching two or more adults engage in sexual congress is not gross, and it won’t fuck up your moral compass. The same goes for those who are having sex – as long as it’s legal and everyone wants to have sex with you, it’s totally good.

Even those who pleasure themselves, Man and Woman alike are OK. It’s normal to Masturbate, its very healthy, and has a truckload of benefits. Don’t believe me ? Click the link below. Don’t worry – I’ll wait:

http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/masturbation-guide

See ? Totally Healthy. 😀

So why Prudes so hung up on this ? Well, If you were reading the that article in the link above you may have caught this little quote:

Some cultures and religions oppose the use of masturbation or even label it as sinful. This can lead to guilt or shame about the behavior.

And that’s why prudes exist. They are nothing more than people who were taught that its just wrong, and just built it up from there. Think about it: If Touching yourself is bad, then maybe enjoying sex is bad too. And if that’s bad, then watching Adult films must be bad too, if not worse.

And that is NOT a healthy way of thinking !

Trying not to allow your sexual self to grow and flourish is like trying not to allow the sun to rise. It’s still gonna happen, and you should accept it.

Also, why do you think Porn exists in the first place ? So you can masturbate, and maybe learn a few moves to try with your partner. I can tell you right now, since I started watching porn, I’ve learned a volley of new moves. I haz mad skills. Just Saying >:D

As for your Moral Compass – that is not swayed by Pornography. Your Moral Compass is something that is developed by understanding between right and wrong. Examples:

Eating a cheeseburger – right

Abusing an animal – wrong

Being faithful to your BF/GF/Spouse/Partner – right

Thinking that rape is cool – wrong, very wrong

etc, etc, etc.

Like I said: Watching Porn won’t mess up your moral compass – but it will improve your sex life.

So, after all that, the question remains: “What do we do when confronted by prudes ?”

 

Should we shun them like they sometimes shun us ? No.

Should we ignore them ? No, being rude is not the answer.

Should we just tell them to go away ? Only if they are being a real dickhead to you.

What should we do ? Simple. Open a discussion. Just explain to them as calmly as you can as to why you feel porn, masturbation and sex are all good things to enjoy. Show them some legitimate articles like the one above. Show them its ok to enjoy themselves, and that as long as you enjoy these acts in moderation, it’s just fine.

And if they act like an asshole – then just leave them be. Hopefully they’ll get the point one day.

Laters.

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